Motivation

Valuable.

Hey folks..

This is just an instant thought that struck my mind while I was going through my Facebook wall yesterday. I read a post which is the sole reason of my article today.

Let me begin with a question.

Is it normal for people to keep questioning or doubting about their own existence?

How many times did you get these questions? (If you never did, then you are living the best of your life)

Am I really worthy?

Does someone around me value me enough for being there with them?

Well, if you ask me. There are situations where people do get these questions to themselves.

They do question there existence.

They do get this evident doubt of why are they even living this life when nobody values them when they are around.

And to nobody’s surprise these days.

This is the most common reason why we see lot of teenagers or young adults commit suicide.

It truly is very saddening to here any such incidents taking place. And, its quite common these days to hear such news on daily basis.

My only attempt today would be to try and stop this saddening act of suicide.

This tendency of giving up your life comes from this very root cause of not being valued or liked among the peers.

If anyone of you ever feel that your are not being valued. Then please note my words.

There is always another side to a coin.

It’s just the way you consider or take things to yourself. If you say that nobody values you. Then of course no one will and it will be the reason for your pain, distress, agony and it will start eating you up.

But if you would think the other way round.

Start thinking to yourself that if anyone doesn’t value you.

Then they don’t know your value..It’s as simple as that.

Always remember that you are valuable and you are valuable to your mom and dad .. your brother and sister .. They will love you always no matter what.

And, If you don’t value yourself. Then be sure that people would also not value someone who doesn’t even value their own self.

Truth of the moment is that YOU ARE VALUABLE and at any given moment of time.. you should always know and keep reminding yourself that you are the most valuable person.

Start being strong and positive in your approach towards you and your life around you. Only then will you start noticing that, how things will start changing around you.

Happy Reading! ☺️

Disclaimer: Please feel free to drop your thoughts on this highly sensitive topic I have spoken on today. If something that I have expressed is harsh or inappropriate to the readers please bear with me for it.

How to be Strong

Strong.

Hey folks..

Good Morning.. let’s begin our day with a dose of motivational drug into our system, which can keep us energetic and motivated for the rest of our week 🙂

So, How many of you’ll have observed the scenic beauty of mountains while your travelling across different cities by road, rail or airways?

Well, the objective here is not which mode of transportation you use to travel across places. But, objective is that amazing beauty of mountains that we observe during any of such travels.

Best travel spot to witness this scenic beauty of mountains is ghats section. Correct me if I am wrong with this. Don’t you feel that its such a beautiful place where you enjoy the beauty of mountains surrounding you?

Yes, for me it definitely is one of the most beautiful places..

I would like to travel again and again just to witness such scenic beauty of nature amidst so many wonderful mountains and everything on and around it.

Well, Coming to the core of today’s topic. Can there be any better example other than these mountains to show the real essence of being strong?

To sum it up in short – These mountains are literally split into two at times – to create roadways or railways. It witnesses huge land slides. In places of volcanoes, it bares the brutal heat of lava flowing on top of it. It witnesses the changing weather conditions (scorching heat, heavy rainfall, snowfall and so on..) 24*7 and 356 days.

Even after facing every single bit of it on every single day. Does it fail to mesmerize you with its serene beauty? Never right.

And that is the best thing which we need to learn and incorporate in our lives too.

Often we see that we come across many difficult situations in our day-to-day life. We breakdown. We get upset. We start getting irritated. Start being annoyed of every single thing around us.

But, instead of reacting in such a way that it disrupts us more and more..

Why can’t we actually stand still and face the situations with upright face, with the bright smile that trashes away every situation and give us the courage required to overcome any situation and live our life to the fullest?

I have always believed and tried to follow this one point on being strong. No matter what happens.

If you can smile even through your troubles even after being in the worst possible situations and you give a try to overcome it.

Then it is the true sign of you being the strongest of all.

Conclusion:

Never let anything break you down or shatter you to pieces. Always remember that no trouble or situation is any way bigger than who you really are.

Make every trouble around you look smaller in front of you and chase them all with a beautiful smile on your face. Then you will see how everything around you turns out to be the best you could ever imagine 🙂

Please do like, comment your views or feedback and please do share with your loved ones, friends and colleagues. If you do, then it will definitely keep me motivated to write more and more such inspirational articles in future.

Happy Reading ❤

Success

Noise.

Hey Folks..

It’s Monday morning, and my post today is to make this minute noise in your inbox with the notification of my “Motivational Monday” post 😉

Well, today I thought let me speak about this word noise.

Yes, you might be thinking what can be motivational with this term noise. Right? Well, it does. It does bring some motivation within each one of us by the way we consider it to be.

Confused?

Let me clear it for you.

There are different types of noises that we come across in our day to day life. Like,  Honking of vehicles. Noise from Crackers. Noise from loud music and many more.

But, today! I am not going to speak about any of such noises I mentioned above.

I will be speaking about the noise that will be made from the way you carry yourself and live your life. How many of you guys out there want to here a noise of failure in your life? No one right? Who wants to hear such negative noises. I would hate to hear such noise for even a split second.

So, it’s quite obvious that everyone of us want to hear the noise of success in our life right?

Do you want to make the noise by your own words by speaking to every other person about it before getting the success?

Or instead, you want your success make some noise and let people know about it rather than you speaking about it by yourself?

The most common mistake that most of us do in our lives is. We speak a lot about the things we want to do. And end up doing just a bit of it or do nothing at all. Due to whatever reasons it might be. And we end up making just the noise without success being part of that noise. 

If you closely think about this once.

How many times in your life till now, have you said something to everyone before doing anything and were not able to achieve it or do it?

And, how many times in your life you have not said anything and have done it successfully which in-turn has made the noise of letting every other person know about it? 

Well, as per what I have learn’t and how much I have understood about this kind of “noise” that we get from success.

If you ask me about it, I would rather say.

The joy we get from the noise that your success makes is incomparable with just the noise that you make through your words before attaining the success you wished for. 

Please do let me know your thoughts about the same. Let me know if you liked the post so that I can continue writing more and more posts like this. And also, do share it with your friends and family members.

Sharing is Caring! Please show some love through your shares and likes as many as you can 

Happy Reading! 🙂

Writers Block

Lost but now found..

Hey Guys…

Hope you all are doing great. Well, I am worn out writing apology notes for not being active on my blog since months for now. I kept wondering for myself as to why am I not able to make any time for myself to come and speak out on my blog.

I kept wondering on what could be the reason behind it and asking lot of questions to myself. Could it be because I am a lot stuck with my day-to-day activities revolving around my workplace or for various personal priorities?

After a long wait to figure out what exactly was blocking me out from speaking on my blog. I came across this term called – Writers Block…

Yes, there was a time when I had first begun my blogging journey exactly a year back. And, I use to wonder if there is really anything like this in real? How can anyone get drained out of ideas to write or speak?

And after doing a little bit of research on the same made me realize that what phase of blogging I was going through is what exactly means this term “Writers Block”.  

Definition of Writers Block goes something like this,

Writer’s block is a condition, primarily associated with writing, in which an author loses the ability to produce new work, or experiences a creative slowdown. The condition ranges in difficulty from coming up with original ideas to being unable to produce a work for years

– Source: Wikipedia

And so I did dig into this topic a little more to see what could be the probable reason for this and how long can this last for an individual?

It was observed that, this could be possibly because of no inspiration, no time or no ideas and it could last for nearly few months and if it goes on to nearly a year-long gap then it will be coined as “Writers burnout”.

I thank god that it was just a block for me than a burnout.. ! 😀 

Anyways, I decided to write a post on this and let everyone know the techniques I used and came out of this phase to get started back again.

  1. Talk to an imaginary Friend – This will definitely help you get some boost to get started all over again.
  2. Stop writing for a while – It’s totally okay. It is alright to stop rather than just write anything that is of no value or crappy altogether.
  3. Take a short trip all by yourself or with your friends – It doesn’t really matter if you can just chill yourself and breathe to feel all alive back again.
  4. Reread your superhero posts – yes, this will definitely get you kick started to start penning your thoughts back again. And for me the post that did the trick for me was this –  Cold Coffee & French Fries.

Hope to get back and groove with you all by reading and writing many more posts to come! 😉

Happy Reading! 🙂

Book of Life.

Yes, you might be wondering what this guy is up to now 🤔

I was just going through a book and found that there where many pages in it with many languages, words, sentences and images. To my astonishment, none of the pages were similar. Every single page was different in one or the other way. With single constant in all the pages of the book was the word “YOU”.

Having seen this in a book I realized, this is not just the case with this book. It’s pretty much the same with almost every other book we see in a book shelf. Most of the words get jumbled up to create different sentences and with words many images also get created, which sometimes will have some meaning to it and sometimes they really don’t.

Having said all these, I would now introduce the characters I created in my imaginary world to explain all that I wrote above. Pardon me for making you read this article twice. Because, I am sure you would want to correlate with the metaphors I considered to express my thoughts.

Book shelf – World we live in.

Book – Life of any individual

Pages – Phases in our life.

Languages – Diversified class of people with different culture.

Words – People around like you and me.

Sentences – Moments that get created based on the people in our life.

Images – Dreams that we create to fulfill it someday.

So bottom line is..

Be it of any language, a book is meaningful to read only when it has right set words which will create the best of pages and some memorable sentences which fulfills the images that are created before book is closed.

Never, waste a Book [Life] that is given to you. Create some valuable pages [phases of your life] so that when you look back there are no regrets but are filled with enjoyable sentences [moments] to cherish. Be sure that all your images [dreams] are completed before your book of life is closed [Last breath].

Do you love your book? 🙂 If not, then better start re-writing it soon.. 🙂

Please don’t forget to drop your thoughts on this article using the comments section below. Do let me know how did you feel reading this article. If you liked it feel free to share it with your loved ones to 😉 Means a lot. Happy Reading 🙂

Disclaimer: Based on my personal experience. I have just tried to be a little creative again in expressing my thought about how one should make their life meaningful with proper set of people, dreams, mixture of moments and memories to it.

Good & Bad Inner Voice.

There lived this cute couple.

These two never used to speak with each other face to face except for that of phone calls and texts (Though they both were from the same city)

Talking over the call and text were the only means of communication for there rescue. (As they both studied in two different colleges in different cities)

(You can for sure imagine the gush of thoughts and emotions flowing through in any long distance relationships rite)

Same was the case with these two as they had controlled their desire to meet each other for almost many years.

Even after having mixed feelings, anxiety and many more temptations of lust and so on.

Love for each other and maturity they had developed over the period of time being in such relationship surpassed every other thing they were going through.

Amidst all this they somewhere knew about one rock solid fact which was the sole reason for them to overcome every temptation they came across in their relationships.

(They knew)

God is the one who should have control of their lives and they cannot do it on their own.

If they wished to. They could have taken the steering of their lives and fallen a prey for every temptations they came across. But, even though they almost were about to fall for it. In reality they never really got into the trap of temptations and got saved from it.

It’s true. Every one will always have two inner voices. One which prompts you to do all the things that are good for you. The other which prompts you to do all the things that are bad or not so good for you.

Moral: It is always under your control as to which voice do you want to listen and act upon. If your wise enough to decide on this. Be sure you have won most of the battles for the rest of your life.

Disclaimer: I have tried to explain the confusion about listening to inner voice within you. You cannot actually blame saying you couldn’t control yourself for no matter whatever reason it might be.

Fact is if you actually controlled, you listened to the good inner voice. If you couldn’t control then you have probably listened to your bad inner voice.

Hope so I have made my point clear through this short story. Please feel free to express your views on the same using the comments section below.

Happy Reading. 🙂

Fear of Replacement.

Don’t you all feel. It is really true. Everyone at some point. Come across this fear of being replaced. Be it among your friends at school, college. Be it among your colleagues at office. Be it among any group of people whom you would never want to lose.

It’s okay. It’s nothing-but-natural. Sometimes even if you are not like that. Back of your mind. Inevitably you start thinking in that direction.

But, the fact is. There is no necessity or any requirement for you to have any fear of being replaced or forgotten. All you need to do is understand a very simple fact. No matter who you are connected with. Be it anyone your friends, colleagues or anyone. If you are really connected. You should never fear about being replaced.

Because. If a person is really connected with you or you are connected with someone. It’s a bond that gets generated which can never be broken unless you break it on purpose.

In the course of being anxious and fearful of being replaced. More often it so happens that you tend to break the bond on your own. By reacting to unnecessary circumstances. By being anxious about something unwanted or not so necessary thing related to the person with whom your fearful from being replaced with.

So, it’s always advisable to go with the flow. Trust your intuition. Believe in Time. These will definitely help you overcome all these anxiety, restlessness, fear-fullness of being replaced.

Trust the bond because of which your connected with one another. Believe in your intuition and timing. Rest will fall in its place. For sure. You will overcome the fear of being replaced.

I have put-forth my thoughts about this fear that almost every one of us will come across at-least once in our life. Do let me know your thoughts and views on the same.

Happy Reading! 🙂

Aside

Chutney.

Well, it’s true. I know the topic of this article seems to be a little funny on its own! 😀 But, request you’ll to bear with me for this. Hope you will like it once your done reading it.

To be frank. I got this thought of writing something on “Chutney” when I was eating “Dosa” today morning. For a moment, I felt it to be so true.

It’s for sure. Every one of us will be having ups and downs rite. Happy and sad moments undoubtedly will be there.

But, on the contrary. I Just gave it a thought. How would it be. If I had a life which neither had any happiness nor sadness in it [In short: No emotions]. If I had a life where there were neither ups nor downs in it [How on earth would I even understand the true essence of life]. 

Having said all this. When I thought about having a “Dosa” without “Chutney”. I jumped into my imaginary world. And started imagining and started considering Breakfast, Dosa and Chutney to actually be metaphors.

Breakfast: Life

Dosa: Me

Chutney: Mixture of all things that happen to me during the course of my Life

It’s a complete cycle. Only when all these three are in place. Everything is just perfect. If one misses out. Rest others will have no meaning to it. 

In short. Life is complete only when you have got all the mixture of things that happen along side your day-to-day activities. So, Remember.

Only, if Chutney is there with Dosa. Meal will definitely be appetizing and delightful. 

Disclaimer: Based on my personal experience. I have just tried to be a little creative in expressing my thought about how life is tasteless if there is no proper mixture of situations and memories to it.

 

It’s Okay.

Do you anytime feel that people you are surrounded with will never know you. They are not living up to your expectations. What you want people to do. They are not doing it for you.

All trouble. All Agony. Battle is going around in your mind. Your are not able to focus in your day-to-day activities.

Why do you think this will happen. It’s because, you need to understand this. Any third person for that matter will not be knowing much about your journey. Even if they know. Possible chances that they might have faced even more struggle and troublesome times. That, whatever your going through might seem to be very small in front of it.

When such things happens. You tend to break down. You feel no one pays any attention to you. People around hardly pays any attention to you.

So, what can be done for it. Sit back and worry. Get depressed. No. Never.

Instead. Don’t worry much. Rather, Be Strong. Be courageous. Don’t Breakdown. Don’t Give-up. Say to yourself.

It’s Okay.

It’s Okay, Every other person will not understand my Journey.

It’s Okay, Every other person have their own problems in their life to look after.

It’s Okay, I need to start paying attention to myself.

It’s Okay, I will look after to my problems and deal with it.

It’s Okay, I am strong enough to take care of my self.

It’s Okay, I love myself more from this day on-wards!

Moral: When you start believing in yourself. No matter what comes in your way. Any problem. Any disappointments. Be sure. Everything will just seem like it is nothing but a pea in a pot. You can overcome it with ease and much greater confidence. 

So, It’s okay. Believe in yourself. Never Give up 😊

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Happy Reading! 🙂